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Last Tuesday around 9 p.m., I was sitting in my apartment in Austin scrolling through a thread on Reddit where women were asking which Mexican sites were actually free and which ones just pretended to be. Nobody had a straight answer. So I went back through my own notes from the past year of…

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Get this wrong and you end up either projecting a fantasy onto a real woman or reducing her to a stereotype she’s spent her whole life fighting against. Both outcomes are bad. White men who approach latin women dating with assumptions built from movies or travel blogs rarely get past a first conversation. And…